I love challenges, not love placid life. In the school year, I actively plead, taught at the school for five - class (2 class). Unexpectedly, just began school, I was playing a sap. This is how a group of children: all day to stir up trouble and mischief; and contradict the teacher, let your worn-out mouth skin indifferent; drag and drop operations, ask sanbuzhi... No way, not cold feet, I had to crustily skin of head. But, say - do not listen to; scold - to defy; to fight - can not. When I gradually lost confidence, a chair quietly changed everything.
Say to is purely accidental, that day, I was absorbed in calligraphy, Xiaowei class and also for fighting is the class cadre to my desk. Once, so I pointed to the desk chair, lightly said a sentence: "please sit down for a moment, etc.." Sweat they froze. Yes ah, made a mistake, the teacher is so gentle. "Sit down."!" The emphasis of two children, you look at me, I look at you, straight to sit down. "Teacher" and "teacher", they just sat down to explain the reason of the fight. "Hush!" I pointed to other teachers in the office, motioned them to be quiet. "Sit and think about the cause and process of the matter, be objective and complete, think clearly and then tell me."
When I am satisfied with the work, they also want to be good, good, good, but also more objective, at the end are brave enough to admit their own shortcomings. The whole process of harmonious atmosphere, there is no quarrel.
Their attitude has made me calm my heart. Finally, I sincerely to them said: "you admit the attitude of teachers is very satisfactory, so I decided to change ever let you write the check, please you to write an essay what happened today, as to give you the 'punishment'". They were willing to immediately write, sit at a desk, in the past few uneasy, in the brush to write up a draft. Only 25 minutes, a small "battle of noon" will be released. 30 minutes, "Daniel" fresh "criticism" is done. Sure enough, the story of the whole story, language fluency, reflection. I picked up the red pen and approved a big "excellent" word. Two of them smiled and left, sitting on the desk I also secretly happy.
Good! "Sit down education" is worth a try.
The first is purely accidental, the second is inevitable. Is still a hot noon, being lunch I was waken by a uproar. The eyes look, desk surrounded by a group of children, one clothes is not the whole, wet, face ruddy, a pair of angry appearance. I woke up, they opened to all sorts of gossip. "Teacher, it's little hard......" "Teacher,......" Again, this is a small firm, "a three six nine, one day" guy, "he called to the office."
When the small firm came to the office, I don't, "Puchi" music, saw him a body of water, his face still hung up the color, is mud coated the Road East, West A, a real "big cat". Originally, before the lunch break, he was the first irrigation, while we are crowded in front of the faucet, the full pot of cold water is sprinkled on the head of the students. This can be made by the collective outrage, punch back, will become so. Happy music, such a big thing still have to deal with. I got a towel and asked him to sit on the chair, and to help him clean it from head to toe. Pro, I didn't ask, he has embarrassed said: "Mr. Cai, I know wrong, you can rest assured, after return me to the students one by one to apologize apologize." "True?" "Of course!"
So, quite a mess of a class, the "high handed policy" used, "where there is oppression, where there is resistance"; "appeasement policy" tried, in their eyes, but a superficial, the ear is forgotten. And this one small chair, has inadvertently become the most effective buffers". Since then, I always put a chair beside the desk, which reads, "student specific".
(Su Du Central Primary School in Jintan city of Jiangsu Province Address: 213200)