US survey shows that, although the separate times during the day, many couples may very strong desire for each other, for example, will miss a husband deserted his wife about the meeting, women are more due to table a photograph Chujingshengqing to think of the past romantic, but when they got home, but somehow lost this feeling.

Recently, the famous American sexual health website "Red Book" of psychological expert Keith - Aibo Luo said: "Go home no sexual interest" has nothing to do with marital relations dilute the interest is often complicated and trivial housework. 93% of married couples because sexual activity is carried out in their own bedroom, so that both spouses have to make efforts to create a better environment for the bedroom, let it be a romantic special place, rather than a pile of various electrical appliances act as the entertainment and office areas.



1, King is not conducive to intimacy

Usually people think that the bigger bed to sleep more comfortably. Aibo Luo believes that somewhat squeeze a little bed, more conducive to intimacy between husband and wife to each other. Because physical contact is the most direct love, when two people touch the hands and feet from time to time, not only can make people feel warm and safe, and sometimes even make no plan days are intense emotion. And who can reach anyone bed, people will have a strange feeling.

2, bed sheets, quilt often for new

best to create the bedroom is fresh sheets, a quilt of such articles. Looming chiffon, colorful cotton, smooth and delicate silk, although everyone likes different material, but physical contact gorgeous bedding relaxation time is the same. Only often for new, clean, color, pattern and material are in line with the aesthetic of both sides, in order to arouse people want to enjoy a carefree instincts.

3, to maintain privacy of the bedroom

bedroom should be a child of the area, this will help the couple put some of the appropriate stimulus, such as nude sculptures, paintings, couples intimate photographs, erotic books. From the point of view of psychology, it is desirable to couple the bedroom environment is a psychological feeling of general requirements, generally no more than three specific elements: adequate security, appropriate sexual stimulation, Lenovo play room.

Aibo Luo believes nightstand can also put a bottle of perfume, but do not open the bottle and let the smell wafting Ruoyouruowu ray, can produce a kind of ambiguous emotions.

4, bedrooms tone adapt wife claim

because his wife's motives are more affected by the environment, so the bedroom colors should be feeling the wife of the main, the general should follow the "opposite and complementary" principle, namely hue embodied appeal should character wife publicly demonstrated the opposite. Passionate wife should choose delicate and rich and expressive colors such as beige; stiff tranquil wife should be selected bright cheerful colors, such as orange, pink. Will lead to the opposite color wife threw himself into sex, she usually does not easily stimulate the mobilization rich outpouring of emotion.

from towards, the south or east of the middle of the room with color as well, the available cool west, then north with warm more appropriate. Overall furniture to warm colors to enhance the warm atmosphere.

bedside lamps try to use dimmable lamp. Before having sex, it can be transferred into a dark and soft light, creating a hazy mood. Research shows that marital status was observed when other sexual arousal and physiological responses of individuals in the soft light, the two sides can strengthen sexual excitement.

Aibo Luo pointed out, the best husband and wife to each other leaving a little mystery, not in front of the other's face dressing in the bedroom. For the vast majority of ordinary couples, naked beauty is not strong, "why should we admit the short of it?" A12b34c53fg3p7
Although not necessary to dress very sexy in the bedroom every day, but the best do not wear too much in bed rigid. Conservative wife might occasionally wear a silk pajamas, underwear and her husband's best one-for-one day.

5, and occasionally sleep separately once

Aibo Luo pointed out that when couples over a period of time required to bear at night, late, in overtime at home late into the night life, try to sleep a few days apart. This can not only avoid unnecessary bed early one sleepy, you can also increase the sense of mystery, when together again, as ever so excited and exciting appointment. Or when the couple have a good emotional foundation, but found that "sex" between them gradually fades, you can also choose bed to sleep in brewing "sex".

6, do not have to sleep separately to sleep in two rooms

popular "sub-bed room, regardless," "being, regardless of sub-bed" and other methods can be regarded as a good solution.